Weddingguide


	THE ENGAGEMENT RING
	by African Diamonds

	Buying an engagement ring is a very big decision – it symbolises the start
	of the marriage. The process raises a multitude of questions:

	• Is it better to buy a ring or to have one designed?
	• Does my ring have to be a surprise or can I have some input into the
	design?
	• Do I have to use a diamond in my ring?
	• What about other precious stones?
	• Who is the best jeweller to use?

	One of the most important aspects of an engagement is that you as the
	future bride must be happy with your ring. The ring is not just a mere
	formality; it is a symbol of your exclusive and special relationship. It
	communicates everything that your relationship entails to each other and
	everyone else.

	For some couples, it is more convenient to buy a ring from a jeweller’s stock
	– such a ring is available immediately. If you decide to have a ring
	designed, you may be sure that it is unique and to your taste. It is also
	easier to budget for a ring that is being designed. It is important to choose
	a jeweller who understands you and your ideas to ensure that the ring is
	exactly what you want.

	It is essential to use a jeweller who will support the couple in their
	decisions, but who also has a creative touch. The jeweller needs to build a
	personal relationship with the couple and must above all understand the
	bride. When a couple choose a ring, it must not only suit the bride’s hand,
	but also her personality. Her lifestyle, preferences regarding ring size and
	the amount of money the groom is willing to spend must also be taken into
	account.





	It is strongly recommended that a jeweller with a good reputation and
	sufficient knowledge is used. The jeweller must also have knowledge about
	diamonds, other precious stones and precious metals.

	Here are some more tips for choosing a ring:
	• The ring must suit the bride’s hand. Some widths create the illusion of a
	broad finger, while other styles are used to make a finger look longer
	and more dainty.
	• The ring must suit the bride’s lifestyle. Some precious stones are more
	brittle than others and should preferably not be used for brides that work
	with their hands often. Take the bride’s occupation, hobbies and habits
	into account.
	• Some brides prefer to get engaged with a ring designed by their fiancés,
	while others prefer to design it themselves. A good alternative to this is to
	get engaged with the unset precious stone. This will still surprise the
	bride, and she will still have a say in the design.
	• Take as much time as is necessary to choose the right jeweller to make
	sure that you get the best value for money.
	• Rather buy from a jeweller that belongs to the Jewellery Council of South
	Africa. This certification offers protection to consumers.